What Causes Us To Suffer?

Apples and Oranges

Comparing Things

At times, we may feel that thinking is suffering, like a thief robbing us of the present. What can we do to stop it? In the day, it is light; at night, it is dark.

Is this itself suffering? Only if we compare the way things are now with other situations we have known and wish it were otherwise. Ultimately things are just as they are – only our comparisons cause us to suffer.

…..Achaan Chah

A Still Forest Pool
A Still Forest Pool: The Insight Meditation of Achaan Chan

compiled by Jack Kornfield and Paul Breiter

What Are The Keys To Mindful Love?

Mindful Loving

Characteristics of Mindful Love

  • Attention
    Attention to the present moment – observing, listening, and noticing feelings experienced in our relationships.
  • Acceptance
    Acceptance of ourselves and others just as we are.
  • Appreciation
    Appreciation of our gifts, limits, and longings.
  • Affection
    Affection shown through holding and touching in respectful ways.
  • Allowing
    Allowing life and love to be as they are, with all their ecstasy and ache, without trying to take control.

How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving
How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving
David Richo

When Should We Start Living?

this moment

This Fleeting Moment
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Begin doing what you want to do now. We are not living in eternity. We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand and melting like a snowflake.
     Marie Baynon Ray